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Failure To Launch

Failure To Launch


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Failure to launch your dream life can be a crushing feeling. In his book Fail Up, Tavis Smiley shared a statement that had an extremely impactful emotional attachment. He said ” success seems to be largely a matter of hanging on after others have let go.” What a dynamic statement.

Stopping three feet from gold is so common today. The failure to launch your life can be as fine as a razors edge. Hanging onto your dreams and not letting them fall to the waste side can be a minor adjustment in your thoughts which control your feelings, which in turn create your actions, which then create your results right?

Faulure To Launch

Failure is not the end all of you. Failure means one thing and one thing only. You never found that growth lesson It’s that simple. If you never give up, meaning if you take the growth moment from every “failure” you will find that this word “failure” is just another word in your vocabulary that has this negative belief around it.

The problem with this word is the meanings you have associated with it. The meanings or beliefs about what it means to face it head on and “lose”.

Failure is what you make it, it is what you believe it is. In her book Conquer Fear, Lisa Jimenez shares this profound statement that will make you change these thoughts.

“Change your beliefs-and you change your behaviors, change your behaviors-change your results, change your results-change your life.”

Digest that statement for a while and you will should come to the conclusion that this word failure is just what we believe it is, nothing more. Change your belief about failure and your failure will change as well. Change into what? Great question! What do you believe it will change into?

Time

Time


How much of a factor does time play in our lives?

Time, how significant in it?


We all know that time is a key (or the most crucial key) element in out lives. We hear it everywhere: “There is never enough time” / “Time is never on your side” / “Only if I had more time” / and so on and so on. But what about time with regards to our goals or internal thoughts of failing?

I am reminded of something that John Canary said in Bob Proctor’s Born Rich program. He said

[bq_left] There is a time for sowing and a time for reaping but you can’t do both in the same season.
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What does this mean and how are we applying it? Sowing references how we all plant the seeds of our big dreams. goals, vision, aspirations, and wants. When we plant the seeds we start down a new path, a path of enlightenment and excitement, we are on our way.


This drive continues until a point where we then might hit another crossroads in our lives such as seemingly insurmountable obstacles like funding, belief, time, the knowledge, internal struggle, or any number of other obstacles.

This is where it could just be a matter of time more than anything else. How does the heavy burden of time play out in us achieving our goals?

The Heavy Burdon of Time Picture

Time is a key ingredient that most of us never even think of when we have seemed to “failed” at attaining our dreams, and aspirations. Why is that? Why is it that we never usually take into account that it just might not have been time to achieve what we went after? Maybe we didn’t sow enough seeds, maybe it was not harvesting time, or maybe WE were just not ready for the success that this project would have put forth.

Remember John Canary’s words again

There is a time for sowing and a time for reaping but you can’t do both in the same season.

What season are you in? Where are your crops and are they ready to harvest? Are they REALLY ready to harvest?

As you go forth with your dreams and aspirations, please remember John Canary’s words and try to stop for a second when your vision is not quite where you feel it should be and think you yourself.

It is time for me to be here or there?

So I guess to answer the question this blog started with which was:

Time, how significant in it?


Time is one of the most significant factors we OVERLOOK in our own dreams!

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Focus

Focus



FOCUS: Follow One Course Until Success

F.O.C.U.S


The Midas Touch Book Cover

I am almost through reading The Midas Touch by Robert T. Kiyosaki and Donald Trump. This book is amazing, the topics that they have chose to write about are up everyone’s alley it is just remarkable.

(Quick sneak peak: We will be doing a book review on it, so keep an eye out)

The one topic in particular we are going to focus on in this blog is of course the title…. FOCUS.

Mr. Kiyosaki defines focus as:

Follow / One / Course / Until / Successful….

Now that is a powerful statement do you not agree? How many times do we just loose focus of our vision, goals, objectives, priorities, or Life? I would wager that most of us would loose track very quickly in just a single day in our lives if we tried to keep track.

This is a word most people take for granted, they believe that they have a massive amount of focus, but do they? Robert talks about a time when he was in training for missions in Vietnam and when he was flying during a practice run his instructor was hitting him with a plastic bat. Now the fist time he did turn and the instructor advised him that he now killed everyone on the chopper. He was focused on the goal at hand, to pass the training simulation but just like the life most of us live with, something came out of nowhere and interrupted him. He lost focus, now not all scenarios are as dyer as flying a chopper into the battlefield in Vietnam but it is a great way to look at it.

So just stop and think of the amount of times that you might have lost focus on a particular project or goal. The big question is, did you miss a WOO? Did you miss a Window Of Opportunity by not remaining focused?

Did the fear of possible “failure” takeover and helped you loose focus? Opportunities come to us each and every day, we just have to be ready and focused on seeing them. What goals are you seeking to achieve? Are you laser focused on your prize? Nickelback has a song called If Today Was Your Last Day and some of the lyrics go like this.

Leave no stone unturned, leave your fears behind and try to take the path less traveled. That first step you take is the longest stride.

It Today Was Your Last Day Single CoverDid you have enough focus to take that first stride? When we look at it, none of us know how long that first stride will be BUT the people who are focused will be the ones that persevere. Are you that individual? Are you going to focus and succeed?

Both Robert and Donald talk throughout the book about the power of focus. They tell stories about goals that took over five years but with focus and determination, they succeeded. By reading this book, you can’t help but think…

Can I focus for five years on a single project without getting off track?

Focus can be the determining factor, the big piece of the puzzle that you might be missing if your success is just out of reach. Concentrate on developing your focus and see if that improves your outcome.

Against the grain should be a way of life, whats worth the prize, is always worth the fight.

-Nickelback- From the song If Today Was Your Last Day.


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